“HOW CAN I BE DATING AN ONION? HOW’S THAT EVEN POSSIBLE” I CAN HEAR THE QUESTIONS AND MANY MORE AS THEY ECHO FROM YOUR MIND. ACTUALLY, IT IS VERY POSSIBLE IN THE GOSPEL ACCORDING TO CYNTHIA OMO (NOW RE-CHRISTENED AS CEE-Y). AND IN THIS ARTICLE, SHE IS TELLING US WHAT TO DO WHEN WE REALIZE WE ARE DATING AN ONION. FUNNY AS IT MAY SOUND, YOU’D BETTER PAY MAXIMUM ATTENTION TO THIS.
Over to you, Cee-Y! Goodluck convincing these readers to stop dating an onion. lol. Enjoy the article below.
I woke up this morning thinking about how people manage to stay in abusive relationships and marriages too. This thought reminded me of a post I made on Zuckerville a while ago.
“HOW CAN YOU BE CRYING EVERYDAY IN A RELATIONSHIP?
ARE YOU DATING A HUMAN BEING OR AN ONION?”
Now this may come off as just another funny post by funny Cee~Y , but seriously ladies and gents (shattap! I know guys cry too, don’t comman be forming boss here) why on earth would the one person you love and cherish be the reason you develop bags and dark circles around those beautiful eyes? Isn’t a relationship supposed to be a beautiful thing?
Make we reasom am together….
Someone once said “Every relationship passes through problems and we solve them”. Agreed! But what kind of problems are we talking about here? The type that makes you cry everyday, that inflicts physical and emotional pain on you every other day, the type that rids you off your self-confidence, or the type that imprisons your mind? Naaa, you are getting it all wrong!
Love is a beautiful thing, not a beautiful monster! If you are dating someone who brings the worst feeling out of you, and makes you shed tears (of a feeling that is not joy), you are definitely dating an onion!
To my ladies, NO! it is not normal. Whoever told you that? Would issues arise? of course! Would he ever make you wonder why you ever said yes? Yes oooo! he would. Would there be times when it’d seem as though he dropped from another planet or why else can he not see that his actions are hurting? For shizzy, there would be my dear. A relationship without these moments once in a while would be a lie.
I tell ya! But please go back and note that line, especially the part in bold. I said “once in a while” not “all the time”
When it becomes a habit, my dear, lick your lips, swing your hips, throw your hair in the air, and walk away. He doesn’t deserve you. Stop thinking about what people will say abeg, walk away and do it with pride. You deserve to be happy, don’t let anyone in the name of love deprive you of that.
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I know you have read something like this too many times before now, please for the umpteenth time, do this for yourself, for your good, for your future. Let’s face the guys too. Scroll down.
GUYS! Hmmm.
Do you know that guys pass through abusive relationships too? Don’t worry, topic for another day. But as a dude, if you are dating a lady who makes you feel bad about yourself all the time, or dating a lady who takes too much on your confidence, you need to be bold enough to concede defeat and move on. Keeping silent will make you lose within and outside. Remember, if you already lose a battle in your mind, you will eventually lose in life. So bros, don’t let this lady defeat you completely in mind, raise your head high and take a valiant walk out of her life.
“BUT CEE~Y, IT ISN’T THAT EASY O, I LOVE THIS BABE/GUY.”
Well, use the STAND formula
S- Sit
T- Talk
A- Agree and act
N- never pretend about how your truly feel
d- Do everything in your power to make it work.
If all the above just doesn’t work, go over it again, if it still doesn’t, my friend – it’s time to close the curtains on that relationship!
Date a human, not an onion.
Cheers!
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